Saturday, November 12, 2005
yanzi broke up with her bf le woh.....
these few days the radio stations and newspaper are busy reporting her "break up" news.....usualli i dun realli care abt those singers getting together or breaking up ....it seems to mi it's their way of life.....but then for stephanie sun it's like a bit closer. maybe it's bcos we grew up in the same country ....went thr the same education system .....etc....
the taiwanese say that they broke up bcos she is more successful than him....maybe to a certain extent it's true....how can a man tolerate his woman earning so much more .....i think i also cant stand my husband earning 100 times more than mi ....make mi look realli stupid haha...
but ...in my view hoh....i think my future husband must be in the same line as mi....not exactli the same occupation lah ....but same industry....it's easier to understand each other this way .....and when i tell him abt things at work he wont seems ignorant....i mean let's face it ....big proportion of life is spent on working. u can't possibly dun talk abt work....
let's say u r in the accounting biz and your bf is an engineer....then u start mumbling abt profit and loss account or wat balance sheets....he will give u that blank look...as time goes by u wont want to tell him anymore....then slowli .....slowli....and slowli ....the both of u will go out in silence.....maybe utter a few words about movies and food ...
maybe most of you tink that it's perfectli alright that couples are in different industries....and there are definitely a lot of sweet examples around...well...in my view, communication is a very important aspect....it's not onli that ......different industries have different demands also.....
construction industry: work 6 full days (official).....7 days sometimes....
accounting: slack for june to end of dec.....then peak period from jan to may
banking:everyday work 12 hours
sales: work while pple shop
.........the list goes on.....so if u r going out with an auditor....like mi....be ready to not see your bf for 5 mths.....and this 5 mths include valentine's day.....chinese new year....april's fool day....vesak day....good friday etc....so i actualli have to put up with the differences also....
i think yanzi bf also gave up that he has to always wait for her....wait for her to come back from dunno which part of the earth....wait for her to finish signing all her fans' albums....wait wait and wait....sian lo....then when yanzi talk abt doe re mi fa.....his bf noes onli balance sheets ...haha....jialat....how to be together...
the taiwanese say that they broke up bcos she is more successful than him....maybe to a certain extent it's true....how can a man tolerate his woman earning so much more .....i think i also cant stand my husband earning 100 times more than mi ....make mi look realli stupid haha...
but ...in my view hoh....i think my future husband must be in the same line as mi....not exactli the same occupation lah ....but same industry....it's easier to understand each other this way .....and when i tell him abt things at work he wont seems ignorant....i mean let's face it ....big proportion of life is spent on working. u can't possibly dun talk abt work....
let's say u r in the accounting biz and your bf is an engineer....then u start mumbling abt profit and loss account or wat balance sheets....he will give u that blank look...as time goes by u wont want to tell him anymore....then slowli .....slowli....and slowli ....the both of u will go out in silence.....maybe utter a few words about movies and food ...
maybe most of you tink that it's perfectli alright that couples are in different industries....and there are definitely a lot of sweet examples around...well...in my view, communication is a very important aspect....it's not onli that ......different industries have different demands also.....
construction industry: work 6 full days (official).....7 days sometimes....
accounting: slack for june to end of dec.....then peak period from jan to may
banking:everyday work 12 hours
sales: work while pple shop
.........the list goes on.....so if u r going out with an auditor....like mi....be ready to not see your bf for 5 mths.....and this 5 mths include valentine's day.....chinese new year....april's fool day....vesak day....good friday etc....so i actualli have to put up with the differences also....
i think yanzi bf also gave up that he has to always wait for her....wait for her to come back from dunno which part of the earth....wait for her to finish signing all her fans' albums....wait wait and wait....sian lo....then when yanzi talk abt doe re mi fa.....his bf noes onli balance sheets ...haha....jialat....how to be together...
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