Wednesday, March 22, 2006
the distance between the each of us
Have you all wonder how to measure the closeness in between people?
While in the train today, I came up with a great theory that measures the closeness of any relationships. Pls look at the formula below:
Closeness/Proximity of a relationship ∞ no. of meals you have with the person
which means the more times you have a meal with someone.....the closer the both of you
Ok. Now think about it. Will you eat with someone you don't like for more than 2 times a week? And think again. Who you eat with most of the time? Boyfriend? your schoolmates? parents? colleagues? Even if you dunno the person well......I'm sure eating together for 3-4 times.....will certainly change everything
For mi in school I eat with my school mates loh.....of course we are close!!! And at home I ate with the tv.....and i love it that I wish I could stare at it for another 12 hours haha.......bf? weekends will then eat with him....thus not so close heee....
sorry a bit bo liao .....exam coming relac !!!
While in the train today, I came up with a great theory that measures the closeness of any relationships. Pls look at the formula below:
Closeness/Proximity of a relationship ∞ no. of meals you have with the person
which means the more times you have a meal with someone.....the closer the both of you
Ok. Now think about it. Will you eat with someone you don't like for more than 2 times a week? And think again. Who you eat with most of the time? Boyfriend? your schoolmates? parents? colleagues? Even if you dunno the person well......I'm sure eating together for 3-4 times.....will certainly change everything
For mi in school I eat with my school mates loh.....of course we are close!!! And at home I ate with the tv.....and i love it that I wish I could stare at it for another 12 hours haha.......bf? weekends will then eat with him....thus not so close heee....
sorry a bit bo liao .....exam coming relac !!!
Thursday, March 16, 2006
my career
"What are you going to be when you grow up?"
This question really hits me hard today. I went to the NTU's career fair. I tot maybe i can get an idea what I really wants. Right now i onli know that I dun want to be an Engineer and I also dun want to be a teacher. Firstly I am technically-deficient to a good engineer. Secondly I am too irresponsible to make an impact in somebody's life.
Before I went, I tot maybe I can work in a bank. wear nice nice to work and happily sit in air con room ..... then when pple ask mi where u working.....a bank will nv sound bad even though you are someone who teaches pple how to use the atm.
then i went to the fair, there are no banks there onli HSBC Insurance. there are mainly 2 kinds of jobs. Financial planners and Engineers. AIA, Prudential, Alliance, Fine-xis, Philip Capital, First Principal, AXA wealth mgt etc.........so how? I am starting to fear that I will have no choice but to join this financial advisory business. This industry is said to be growing and growing. I just wonder will it bursts?
It is purely commission base. There are damn loads of success stories. I wonder how many of them are true. Let's see: If i join the biz......my first clients are going to be my relatives. so i will be feeding on my relative's salary for my first few months. Then I went into the referral phase. How many people are so free to help u publicise? Telling pple:"hey Wenting is in this biz, if u want to invest go and find her." ppl:"Why her? She can provide with something other advisors cannot?" The answer is no. The only difference is I can speak in Hokkien plus a bit of Cantonese that will make you laugh your heads off.
Yes yes yes. I have always been telling my friends I hope to be doing sales rather than boring admin jobs. Is there another kind of sales that will spare me from friends shunning away ?
haha lets see.....but if one day I really have no choice.....remember.....DUN avoid me. hee
This question really hits me hard today. I went to the NTU's career fair. I tot maybe i can get an idea what I really wants. Right now i onli know that I dun want to be an Engineer and I also dun want to be a teacher. Firstly I am technically-deficient to a good engineer. Secondly I am too irresponsible to make an impact in somebody's life.
Before I went, I tot maybe I can work in a bank. wear nice nice to work and happily sit in air con room ..... then when pple ask mi where u working.....a bank will nv sound bad even though you are someone who teaches pple how to use the atm.
then i went to the fair, there are no banks there onli HSBC Insurance. there are mainly 2 kinds of jobs. Financial planners and Engineers. AIA, Prudential, Alliance, Fine-xis, Philip Capital, First Principal, AXA wealth mgt etc.........so how? I am starting to fear that I will have no choice but to join this financial advisory business. This industry is said to be growing and growing. I just wonder will it bursts?
It is purely commission base. There are damn loads of success stories. I wonder how many of them are true. Let's see: If i join the biz......my first clients are going to be my relatives. so i will be feeding on my relative's salary for my first few months. Then I went into the referral phase. How many people are so free to help u publicise? Telling pple:"hey Wenting is in this biz, if u want to invest go and find her." ppl:"Why her? She can provide with something other advisors cannot?" The answer is no. The only difference is I can speak in Hokkien plus a bit of Cantonese that will make you laugh your heads off.
Yes yes yes. I have always been telling my friends I hope to be doing sales rather than boring admin jobs. Is there another kind of sales that will spare me from friends shunning away ?
haha lets see.....but if one day I really have no choice.....remember.....DUN avoid me. hee
Wednesday, March 01, 2006
Frustration of the day
Sometimes I feel fustrated y pple dun think the way I do?
Do you really think that people are together bcos they are different? And they fit jus like a jigsaw puzzle?
Y i always talk non stop while my bf keeps quiet?
Do you really think that people are together bcos they are different? And they fit jus like a jigsaw puzzle?
Y i always talk non stop while my bf keeps quiet?
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